| By Tawanda Kadungure,
on November 28 2007 02:49
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Dr David Parirenyatwa, the Minister of Health and Child Welfare has said issues pertaining to masturbation and compulsory virginity tests should be brought to debate if they help restore moral values in the society.
 Zimbabwe Minister of Health and Child Welfare This, he said at a discussion forum held two weeks ago at Murewa Centre in Mashonaland East which was to discuss the issues of gender base violence in homes. “Some elders say they respected women more during the old days because they used to masturbate a lot so that they didn’t always feel like having sex. Even girls used to go for virginity tests regularly and it is said to have helped. If these initiatives worked back then and among us some feel that they should be pursued, then there is need for us to debate on them,” he said. Most elders who were gathered at this meeting had said they were worried by the rate at which this current generation had lost moral values thereby succumbing to HIV and AIDS.
Dr Parirenyatwa also commented on the issue of women who refuse having sex with their husbands after reaching menopause. One elder had stood up and uttered that, “our wives no longer want to have sex with us. They say the sperm we release will be dirty in them as they no longer have eggs to absorb them and they totally refuse to go to bed with us which in turn sees us engaging in illicit affairs,” much to the applause of all elderly man that were there. In responds Dr Parirenyatwa made it clear that having sex after menopause does not change anything on a woman. “Talking from a doctors point of view, women let me tell you that you can actively have sex with your husbands even after reaching menopause,” he said. Although he highlighted the need for debate on issues relating to virginity tests, he also hinted on the need to respect the law of the land as it emphasised on the need to respect rights of individuals.
“If we are to say girls should be forced to go for virginity tests, we also need to put in sight that these girls have their rights which we need to respect,” said Dr Parirenyatwa. He also highlighted on the need to monitor the boy child as well as it has always been the case that only the girl is expected to be pure whilst boys do as they feel. Elderly women who were present seconded this point as they felt that boys were being made heroes from being promiscuous. “It is always girl this girl that! Virginity is being made a must for girls but who is saying the same for boys. If a boy child sleeps around and it gets to be noticed he is applauded for being a man. Are we not fuelling reckless behaviour in our boy child,” said one elderly woman.
Also of note that Dr Parirenyatwa elaborated on was that virginity tests good as they might be were now making girls from areas where it is practised victims of males who believe in the myth that having sex with a virgin can cure AIDS. Zimbabwe has managed to fight the AIDS prevalence rate from 24,6% to the current 15,6% in a period of roughly a year. Although this has been the case, youngsters in the country are the most prone to getting infected with the epidemic due to reckless behaviour, poverty as well as being victims of rape. |